The Secret to Being 10 Times Bolder| Make a Decision to be Successful
Updated: Jul 24
Hello Awesome One
Coach Dee Woolridge here with a question and three words to ponder. First, I will give you the words:
Enough, belief and action. Now the question....
What would you do if you were 10 times bolder?
Think about that question? What are you asking yourself really? What is it saying? Could you be saying, “I won’t do it because of the word, “ENOUGH".
Perhaps you’re saying that you’re not smart enough, strong enough, pretty enough, interesting enough, educated enough, wealthy enough, worthy enough, courageous enough, valued enough, not enough time.
You see the common word here is enough. What you are really saying is, I’m not enough or I don’t have enough right now to do what I want to do. And what I say to that is you don’t want it enough because if you did, it would be so.
You would make it a priority in your life to achieve it. Think about all the things that you have. All the great and amazing things you have accomplished in your life. Whether that be getting through high school or the rigors of college. Maybe it’s becoming a parent or getting that dream job. Perhaps it’s finally going on a dream vacation or saving a down payment for your home. We all get what we focus on. And when you pour time and energy and belief into something, it comes to life Our thoughts, hopes and dreams become things. You over came all the, “not enough” to get what you want because you BELIEVED it.
BELIEF - The second word.
Another significant word. What do you believe you can have or believe you deserve? Look around you and that is your answer. We manifest things and even people in our lives that we believe we can obtain. If you are short of what you want in materials things, happiness, health or relationships ask yourself, do I believe I can have those things? If your answer is no, then you need to go deeper to find out why.
An awesome life coach life me can help with that. When you seek to find the answer or begin to make a change, you call summon a bolder part of you. When that part emerges you will begin to take action.
Moving to our third word – Action. The doing. The movement. The motor or your dreams.
A car is a lump of rubber, plastic and metal without the motor that makes it go. You can think and know things all day long, yet It does you no good without the doing. So bonus question - what stops your action from taking place?
When I ask this question, I hear a million reasons such as, I don’t have the money, I don’t have the time, I don’t know how. Sometimes we bring other people into it. I don’t want to hurt or offend others. I say leave the limiting beliefs and the excuses and go get whatever you need to reach your dream. If it is others that stop you, it’s only because you are allowing it to be so. It goes right back to the, not enough or a disbelief which stops action. It’s this crazy cycle and void of not living your best life.
Here is the secret to breaking the cycle. The bonus word - Decide
Decide that you want it more than anything else. Decide that you must have it. Making a decision means that you’ve cut out all other possibilities and there is only one answer. When you don’t have what you want, it simply means that you have chosen other available options. I’m going to leave you to ponder this question and these four words:
The question: What would I do if you were 10 times bolder?
These words and questions are to help you go inside and find your answers. If you need help, schedule a free phone consultation here. www.bookwithcoachdee.timetap.com
Until next time, I believe that you have the ability to do great things. Let’s build success together.
Coach Dee Woolridge